Take 60 seconds on these three prompts. They're designed to surface blind spots that quietly shape how we evaluate relationships. Your answers don't affect the score — they help you evaluate it more honestly.
1. What would a close, honest friend say about this relationship?
2. If this marriage struggled five years from now, what would most likely be the reason?
3. Is there any concern I might be downplaying because of how long we've been together?
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Work through the checklist — mark each factor as a Pro (turns green) or Con (turns red), or skip it. Add your own factors too. Then calculate a weighted decision.
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Items are shown in random order to reduce anchoring bias
Answer the prompts below to define what you need in a partner. Each answer gets added to the checklist as a personal criterion — you then mark whether your partner meets it (Pro) or doesn't (Con).
Your criteria — added to checklist
When you're ready, head to Checklist to mark each factor and calculate your decision.→
Add your own factors
Added items appear in the Checklist tab — mark them Pro or Con there to include them in your decision.
No custom items yet — add your own factors above
Done adding? Go to Checklist to rate every factor and get your decision.→
Each factor carries a weight based on its importance. Items marked Pro add to your pro score; items marked Con add to your con score. The net score drives the final verdict.
Point weights
High importance3 pts
Medium importance2 pts
Low importance1 pt
Decision thresholds
High-importance con present + net score ≤ 0Not recommended
Net ≥ +8, with 3 or more high-importance prosStrong yes
Positive net score, pros ≥ 60% of totalLean yes
Negative net score, cons ≥ 60% of totalLean no
Scores closely balanced (within ±4)Uncertain
Bias controls built into this tool
Checklist items appear in random order each loadAnchoring bias
Reflection prompts shown before the verdictConfirmation bias
Halo/horn effect detected per categoryHalo effect
Zero-con and high-skip patterns flaggedSunk-cost / avoidance
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This tool is a structured reflection aid — not a substitute for honest conversation, lived experience, or professional guidance.